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“You don't want to leave the impression that you're only interested in your date's financial status,” says Tina B.Tessina, a Southern California psychotherapist and author of .Do you want a casual relationship or are you looking for a long lasting connection?Who knows what the future holds and that’s the beauty and excitement about dating in midlife. Knowing what you want also fine tunes your intuition and your gut reactions.You’ll sense when someone is being less than honest and authentic, you’ll suss out the person who’s all talk and no action.
After all, if you wind up getting married to someone with a poor credit score, your joint application for a car loan, mortgage or credit card could be denied or the interest rate you’ll pay could be sky high.
A recent survey from Chase Card Services shows that most Americans agree.
More than two thirds of the survey's respondents (65 percent) said that it's best to discuss finances with your significant other within the first three months of the relationship.
Dan Nainan, 51, a New York City-based comedian says he asked his girlfriend about her credit standing early on in their relationship.
“The last thing I want to do is date someone who has ,000 in credit card debt,” he says.
You’ll also learn to rely on your own gut reactions because you’ll have a clear vision for what you want. ———— Rebecca Perkins is the co-founder of Irresistible Dating, creator of The Midlife Coach and author of “Best Knickers Always: 50 Lessons for Midlife”.